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		<title>By: Tori Kropp, RN</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori Kropp, RN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 16:25:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No Margo, you shouldn’t be worried at all. It is not uncommon to not see much movement at this gestational age. There are so many variations of what is normal. Your ultrasound was perfectly normal for this time and a later ultrasound is likely to show you much more movement.  You may even feel the baby moving before your next ultrasound. Congratulations!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No Margo, you shouldn’t be worried at all. It is not uncommon to not see much movement at this gestational age. There are so many variations of what is normal. Your ultrasound was perfectly normal for this time and a later ultrasound is likely to show you much more movement.  You may even feel the baby moving before your next ultrasound. Congratulations!</p>
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		<title>By: Margo F.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Margo F.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 16:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had an ultrasound last week that put me at 9 weeks, 5 days. Everything seemed fine and the heartbeat was 175. Now I keep reading about women who see lots of movement on their ultrasound at this point (arms swinging, legs moving, etc.) I didn&#039;t see any. Should I be worried?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had an ultrasound last week that put me at 9 weeks, 5 days. Everything seemed fine and the heartbeat was 175. Now I keep reading about women who see lots of movement on their ultrasound at this point (arms swinging, legs moving, etc.) I didn&#8217;t see any. Should I be worried?</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Kropp, RN</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori Kropp, RN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 15:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Elaine -- Congratulations on adding a baby girl to your family!

A uterine septum is a band of tissue in the middle of the uterus, usually without much of a blood supply that results from a congenital problem in the formation of the woman&#039;s uterus.

There are several different types of septums and it can be a reason for recurrent miscarriages. The fact that you have 5 healthy children and, I assume previous uncomplicated pregnancies, it appears very likely that yours is not problematic. It has always been present but it appears that this was the first time it was noted on ultrasound.

Please let me know how things continue to move along in your pregnancy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Elaine &#8212; Congratulations on adding a baby girl to your family!</p>
<p>A uterine septum is a band of tissue in the middle of the uterus, usually without much of a blood supply that results from a congenital problem in the formation of the woman&#8217;s uterus.</p>
<p>There are several different types of septums and it can be a reason for recurrent miscarriages. The fact that you have 5 healthy children and, I assume previous uncomplicated pregnancies, it appears very likely that yours is not problematic. It has always been present but it appears that this was the first time it was noted on ultrasound.</p>
<p>Please let me know how things continue to move along in your pregnancy.</p>
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		<title>By: Elaine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 21:57:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tori, I am 41 yrs. old and my husband and I have 5 beautiful boys. We are pregnant with our 6th, and found out today it is a girl. The entire family is excited beyond words. 

My doctor just called me to refer me to a ultrasound specialist, because he said they seen an uterine septum in the ultrasound today, and because of my age he wants to make sure everything is fine. I am scared! What is a uterine septum and is it something I should be concerned about?  

Sincerely, Elaine</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tori, I am 41 yrs. old and my husband and I have 5 beautiful boys. We are pregnant with our 6th, and found out today it is a girl. The entire family is excited beyond words. </p>
<p>My doctor just called me to refer me to a ultrasound specialist, because he said they seen an uterine septum in the ultrasound today, and because of my age he wants to make sure everything is fine. I am scared! What is a uterine septum and is it something I should be concerned about?  </p>
<p>Sincerely, Elaine</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Kropp, RN</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori Kropp, RN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 17:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lydia, 

I&#039;m sorry you are so uncomfortable. A couple of things could be going on. You could have some vulvar varicosities (enlarged blood vessels) which can cause swelling and pain or pressure on the lips of your vagina. However, the burning and itchy sounds more like a yeast infection or some kind of irritation. I think it would be best to have a visit with your practitioner. They may prescribe some kind of medication or creme for the irritation. Please let me know what you find out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lydia, </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry you are so uncomfortable. A couple of things could be going on. You could have some vulvar varicosities (enlarged blood vessels) which can cause swelling and pain or pressure on the lips of your vagina. However, the burning and itchy sounds more like a yeast infection or some kind of irritation. I think it would be best to have a visit with your practitioner. They may prescribe some kind of medication or creme for the irritation. Please let me know what you find out.</p>
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		<title>By: Lydia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lydia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 04:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tori, I am 31 weeks pregnant and since about 28 weeks I have noticed that the lips of my vagina are very swollen and irritated. This is my 3rd pregnancy and my daughter is very low compared to my other two. Also, the inside of my vagina is irritated and red and I have some burning and itching. Please help me, because I want to know what I am going through.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tori, I am 31 weeks pregnant and since about 28 weeks I have noticed that the lips of my vagina are very swollen and irritated. This is my 3rd pregnancy and my daughter is very low compared to my other two. Also, the inside of my vagina is irritated and red and I have some burning and itching. Please help me, because I want to know what I am going through.</p>
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		<title>By: Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 05:47:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tori,

Thank you for the information you provided. It makes me feel so much better to know that there was nothing that I did to cause preterm labor...I am and will try my best to get through this and will definitely see a perinatologist in a future pregnancy....again thank you and I will continue to seek your advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tori,</p>
<p>Thank you for the information you provided. It makes me feel so much better to know that there was nothing that I did to cause preterm labor&#8230;I am and will try my best to get through this and will definitely see a perinatologist in a future pregnancy&#8230;.again thank you and I will continue to seek your advice.</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Kropp, RN</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori Kropp, RN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 16:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Carla,

I am so very, very sorry about your loss of your daughter.  I want to assure you, immediately, that nothing you did was responsible for your miscarriage. Becoming pregnant soon after your first baby and carrying your older child absolutely does not (and did not in your situation) cause preterm labor. You experienced true preterm labor. Often it comes quickly and without much pain or warning. Very little is understood about what actually does cause it and how to prevent it in all situations.

In the highest level intensive care nursery (NICU), a baby still has minimal chances of surviving and being healthy when born at 24-25 weeks. It is simply not possible for a baby to survive earlier than that. Although you may have had a marginal placenta previa, it does not seem to be a factor in this.  I do not know the entire circumstances of your baby&#039;s birth but from my previous experience with this, it is most likely that she died because she was too early to be born. 

When an autopsy is performed on a premature baby, the vast majority of the time, the baby is found to have been perfectly healthy. Please do not regret your decision to have not had an autopsy. It is a very difficult time to make those kinds of choices.

You need emotional and physical time and support to heal from your loss. It is important to express all your feelings of sadness and grief and to not rush the process. When you feel ready to consider becoming pregnant again, it will be very important that you see a Perinatologist. This is a specialized, high risk obstetrician who should care for you in your next pregnancy.

Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and please contact me anytime if you have any questions or need support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Carla,</p>
<p>I am so very, very sorry about your loss of your daughter.  I want to assure you, immediately, that nothing you did was responsible for your miscarriage. Becoming pregnant soon after your first baby and carrying your older child absolutely does not (and did not in your situation) cause preterm labor. You experienced true preterm labor. Often it comes quickly and without much pain or warning. Very little is understood about what actually does cause it and how to prevent it in all situations.</p>
<p>In the highest level intensive care nursery (NICU), a baby still has minimal chances of surviving and being healthy when born at 24-25 weeks. It is simply not possible for a baby to survive earlier than that. Although you may have had a marginal placenta previa, it does not seem to be a factor in this.  I do not know the entire circumstances of your baby&#8217;s birth but from my previous experience with this, it is most likely that she died because she was too early to be born. </p>
<p>When an autopsy is performed on a premature baby, the vast majority of the time, the baby is found to have been perfectly healthy. Please do not regret your decision to have not had an autopsy. It is a very difficult time to make those kinds of choices.</p>
<p>You need emotional and physical time and support to heal from your loss. It is important to express all your feelings of sadness and grief and to not rush the process. When you feel ready to consider becoming pregnant again, it will be very important that you see a Perinatologist. This is a specialized, high risk obstetrician who should care for you in your next pregnancy.</p>
<p>Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and please contact me anytime if you have any questions or need support.</p>
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		<title>By: Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 05:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tori,

3 weeks ago I lost my baby girl at 22 weeks gestation. I went into preterm labot yet I didn&#039;t have any symptoms to warn me... I simply started getting one contraction after another and by the time I got to the hostpital my bag of water was already ready to rupture and there was nothing the doctors could do for us.

 I had an ultrasound and I could see her moving and she still had a heartbeat but when I gave birth to her (vaginally - even though the nurse said I had a marginal placenta previa) the doctor said she was born dead.

My questions are:

*could my marginal placenta previa caused her death even though i had no warnings like bleeding etc.?

*could it have been that I got pregnant too soon (2 months after having my 1st baby)?

* is it because I would carry my 6 month old even though i was pregnant?


ps: the doctor suggested an autopsy since the baby looked normal physically..but I was so out of it and couldn&#039;t bear the image of my baby being cut open that i said no... now I regret not having the autopsy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tori,</p>
<p>3 weeks ago I lost my baby girl at 22 weeks gestation. I went into preterm labot yet I didn&#8217;t have any symptoms to warn me&#8230; I simply started getting one contraction after another and by the time I got to the hostpital my bag of water was already ready to rupture and there was nothing the doctors could do for us.</p>
<p> I had an ultrasound and I could see her moving and she still had a heartbeat but when I gave birth to her (vaginally &#8211; even though the nurse said I had a marginal placenta previa) the doctor said she was born dead.</p>
<p>My questions are:</p>
<p>*could my marginal placenta previa caused her death even though i had no warnings like bleeding etc.?</p>
<p>*could it have been that I got pregnant too soon (2 months after having my 1st baby)?</p>
<p>* is it because I would carry my 6 month old even though i was pregnant?</p>
<p>ps: the doctor suggested an autopsy since the baby looked normal physically..but I was so out of it and couldn&#8217;t bear the image of my baby being cut open that i said no&#8230; now I regret not having the autopsy.</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Kropp, RN</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori Kropp, RN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 15:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kelsey ,

No, there is no correlation between a mom using pain medication for labor and her child&#039;s  reaction to pain. Although a small amount of pain medication does cross the placenta, it does not impact the baby in a negative way. Pain medications that are used for labor and birth today are safe for both mom and baby. The choice to have pain relief should be based on how the mother feels she is coping.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kelsey ,</p>
<p>No, there is no correlation between a mom using pain medication for labor and her child&#8217;s  reaction to pain. Although a small amount of pain medication does cross the placenta, it does not impact the baby in a negative way. Pain medications that are used for labor and birth today are safe for both mom and baby. The choice to have pain relief should be based on how the mother feels she is coping.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelsey</title>
		<link>http://www.thejoyofpregnancy.com/ask-tori/comment-page-7/#comment-916</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 00:32:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Does the use of pain medications for the mom during labor interfere with the baby&#039;s natural ability to cope with pain?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does the use of pain medications for the mom during labor interfere with the baby&#8217;s natural ability to cope with pain?</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Kropp, RN</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori Kropp, RN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 May 2010 19:59:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Gabriela,

I am sorry that you had a stop in the hospital. Yikes! I cannot even imagine how you drove home after the two shots of Terbutaline! Most women become very jittery after just one shot. 

It sounds as though you were having a run of contractions, which is not at all abnormal for 32 weeks. However, since you have a complete previa, any kind of contractions can trigger an episode of bleeding for you. My guess is this is why you were treated with two doses of Terbutaline.

Percocet, although an excellent pain reliever, would not be my choice for this situation. If you were having pain, the pain likely stopped when the contractions stopped, which is what the Terbutaline did.

I agree with you that you should not have driven yourself home after taking Percocet. If you ever do need to go to the hospital again for contractions, please try to have someone go with you in case you are given medications while you are there. 

A good thing to know is that, if ever you are having contractions, first have two full glasses of water and wait 30 minutes. Frequently, just a bit of hydration stops them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Gabriela,</p>
<p>I am sorry that you had a stop in the hospital. Yikes! I cannot even imagine how you drove home after the two shots of Terbutaline! Most women become very jittery after just one shot. </p>
<p>It sounds as though you were having a run of contractions, which is not at all abnormal for 32 weeks. However, since you have a complete previa, any kind of contractions can trigger an episode of bleeding for you. My guess is this is why you were treated with two doses of Terbutaline.</p>
<p>Percocet, although an excellent pain reliever, would not be my choice for this situation. If you were having pain, the pain likely stopped when the contractions stopped, which is what the Terbutaline did.</p>
<p>I agree with you that you should not have driven yourself home after taking Percocet. If you ever do need to go to the hospital again for contractions, please try to have someone go with you in case you are given medications while you are there. </p>
<p>A good thing to know is that, if ever you are having contractions, first have two full glasses of water and wait 30 minutes. Frequently, just a bit of hydration stops them.</p>
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		<title>By: Gabriela Davis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gabriela Davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 May 2010 05:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tori, 
I am 32 weeks pregnant and I went to the L&amp;D ER because I was contracting every three minutes. I have a complete previa and, via ultrasound,  just found out the baby is breech. I recieved two shots of Terbutaline and took my own oral Terbutaline  to stop the contractions. The contractions did slow down alot but I still felt them and they sent me home. Is this normal practice? They also gave me two Percocet prior to leaving and I drove myself to the ER. Isn&#039;t driving myself home after taking Percocet dangerous?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tori,<br />
I am 32 weeks pregnant and I went to the L&amp;D ER because I was contracting every three minutes. I have a complete previa and, via ultrasound,  just found out the baby is breech. I recieved two shots of Terbutaline and took my own oral Terbutaline  to stop the contractions. The contractions did slow down alot but I still felt them and they sent me home. Is this normal practice? They also gave me two Percocet prior to leaving and I drove myself to the ER. Isn&#8217;t driving myself home after taking Percocet dangerous?</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Kropp, RN</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori Kropp, RN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 02:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for writing Heather,

I agree that the instructor does not know her stuff. What she seems to be telling you doesn&#039;t even make any sense. I would not continue the course if I were you. I cannot imagine that the childbirth information she would give you would be either current or necessarily useful.

I am hoping that you have a copy of &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Joy-Pregnancy-Reassuring-Parents-Be/dp/1558323066/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1242570593&amp;sr=1-1&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Joy of Pregnancy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. If you don&#039;t, please &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thejoyofpregnancy.com/free/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;download it free &lt;/a&gt;from our homepage. The chapters on labor and birth are thorough, illustrated and detailed. Honestly, if you think that you and your husband want to see more actual birth videos there are tons on youtube. I would just do a search and see what comes up.

Do you have a nurse-midwife or doctor that can recommend any other options for you?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for writing Heather,</p>
<p>I agree that the instructor does not know her stuff. What she seems to be telling you doesn&#8217;t even make any sense. I would not continue the course if I were you. I cannot imagine that the childbirth information she would give you would be either current or necessarily useful.</p>
<p>I am hoping that you have a copy of <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Joy-Pregnancy-Reassuring-Parents-Be/dp/1558323066/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1242570593&amp;sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">The Joy of Pregnancy</a></em>. If you don&#8217;t, please <a href="http://www.thejoyofpregnancy.com/free/" rel="nofollow">download it free </a>from our homepage. The chapters on labor and birth are thorough, illustrated and detailed. Honestly, if you think that you and your husband want to see more actual birth videos there are tons on youtube. I would just do a search and see what comes up.</p>
<p>Do you have a nurse-midwife or doctor that can recommend any other options for you?</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 13:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband and I are Americans living in Portugal, and we have just started a Lamaze class.  From the first two classes, it seems like the instructor may not know her stuff.  For example, she says that under no circumstances should a woman gain more than 20 lbs. during pregnancy.  Milk, nuts and dried fruit should be avoided, and all fruits and vegetables must be cooked before eating.  She also taught us a pelvic tilt exercise incorrectly.  Should we drop the class and watch a DVD course instead?  This is the only class in English around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I are Americans living in Portugal, and we have just started a Lamaze class.  From the first two classes, it seems like the instructor may not know her stuff.  For example, she says that under no circumstances should a woman gain more than 20 lbs. during pregnancy.  Milk, nuts and dried fruit should be avoided, and all fruits and vegetables must be cooked before eating.  She also taught us a pelvic tilt exercise incorrectly.  Should we drop the class and watch a DVD course instead?  This is the only class in English around.</p>
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